Hi Jo!
I had a problem with ESA earlier this year so I can try to advise from my experiences if you would like?
I had to go to a tribunal , however I was so poorly my neurosurgeon and my GP both wrote letters directly to the people holding the tribunal explaining that I was not fit to attend. The tribunal decided in my absence that they would award me ESA, when what I really needed was just SA (Support allowance) I need SA as all of the doctors have decided I need at least another year to recover properly and am in no way fit to work.
First of all I got all of the doctors that were treating me to vouch for the fact that I was ill, and the extent of my illness. They wrote letters explaining my case history and sent them to the people responsible for the tribunal. When we heard nothing, we got my local MP involved who wrote to the DWP about the fact that I was expected to work when I can't even stand up too long unassisted without falling over, that being one of my many acquired weaknesses from IH.
Eventually I got a letter from the DWP saying that after reading all of the doctors notes on my medical history they were going to award me SA, which was our aim in the first place.
If I have any advice, it is to stick at it, get as many people involved as you can, and just because they say you look okay, it does not mean you are okay!
I am so sorry to hear of all your ailments, I wish you strength and I hope you feel better soon :flower:
I hope this has helped even if only in a slight way, and I will keep my fingers crossed for you.
Keep us updated, and good luck honey!