I am disabled due to the IIH and have been for about 10 years now. I did work up till 6 years ago until my health led to early retirement. I am on a benefit and I also have DLA, it wasn't my choice but in the end I had to accept that was how it had to be. If your Neurologist has told you that you are able to be classed as disabled, then it might be time to look into benefits now. There is no shame in it, and at the end of the day you have to think about what is best for you, and what you need, to live better.